Why does it happen anyway…….

Why does it happen anyway…….

We all know mostly how our day looks like tomorrow. But what we do not know is how to avoid mundane deeds. The sardonicism is we need a perfect life without understanding what makes it perfect in real.

Every morning I see all of them rushing to office, some busy snarling at each other at signals or inappropriate places while all of us cursing our fate to have taken that road. It’s so busy in there, I mean our head it’s a workshop which can never shutdown, no power failures either. Wish there was a button to switch off n lie down gazing at the sky. 

Break ups, hardships, failures, MARRAIGES, DIVORCES unexpectedly turn to biggest mistake of our lives. Are we looking for perfect lives? is it wrong to dream or is it unrealistic at times.. most of the times.

She woke up every morning to see the bright sun shine on her day and make it almost perfect. But what didn’t make it to her complete happiness was still her ex flame or her previously outstanding, “fun time” job. Nevertheless life must go on and here she was to tread along an alien path which she hoped to manifest into a compete life.

We all need change and an immediate change but none of us ever forestall the baggage the change might cart “at” times. Why does it become impossible some times to express simple things to one who always knew and understood meekest of your interest and emotion? Is it our high expectations? Our impatience? Or in real that one person has drifted away?

It’s always been one of the usual fine mornings but her expectations from the day are pretty much higher this is only to satisfy her urge of becoming “flawless” and to lead a “comprehensive happy” life. 

Some things do not change and it’s just advisable to go through, experience, learn and get a grip!!!!

1.       Yes, all your exe’s look fabulous when you are “married”.  Move on and do not ponder over why and where it all went wrong, this will only confuse your present.

2.       Other side of the grass is “always” greener because we are always disappointed with ourselves that we just could not make it and maybe this feeling because of our “over” expectations?

3.       We all talk, and talk and talk a lot about how desperate we are for a “simple” life but never have made a plan on undoing things which always made it complicated.

4.       Yes, the brilliant plan of taking a different route will always gift you with “traffic jams” but this is how it is going to be, maybe make a plan and also expect a change in it or clearly stop making plans!!!!

5.       Sometimes having extra piece of pizza is not a crime, blunder is when you know you can’t cook or do not want to and also have the desire of eating home food.

6.       There is nothing called “picture perfect” because we do not know what makes it perfect, everything new and “unreal” seems perfect.

7.       Dream of leading a “good” n “real” life with no qualms of making mistakes but actually learning from it. Learning the imperfections in you will only make you wiser.

8.       Having stated all the above, the essential thing is to “follow” . I don’t like people screaming at me, and then you might also follow it. I wanna quit smoking you might as well do it. I love ice cream and feel like eating, just go and grab one and do not fret to have relished it. You feel like saying “ you love her/him”  and have reservations , just go ahead and say it because rest of your life you will always think he/she was perfect but could not work it out, maybe after you said it his/her answer becomes your learning!!!!

Need a “simple” life, you better plan how simple you need that to be …….

Megz!!!!