Why does it happen anyway…….
We all know mostly how our day looks like tomorrow. But what we do
not know is how to avoid mundane deeds. The sardonicism is we need a perfect
life without understanding what makes it perfect in real.
Every morning I see all of them rushing to office, some busy
snarling at each other at signals or inappropriate places while all of us
cursing our fate to have taken that road. It’s so busy in there, I mean our
head it’s a workshop which can never shutdown, no power failures either. Wish
there was a button to switch off n lie down gazing at the sky.
Break ups, hardships, failures, MARRAIGES, DIVORCES unexpectedly
turn to biggest mistake of our lives. Are we looking for perfect lives? is it
wrong to dream or is it unrealistic at times.. most of the times.
She woke up every morning to see the bright sun shine on her day
and make it almost perfect. But what didn’t make it to her complete happiness
was still her ex flame or her previously outstanding, “fun time” job. Nevertheless
life must go on and here she was to tread along an alien path which she hoped
to manifest into a compete life.
We all need change and an immediate change but none of us ever forestall
the baggage the change might cart “at” times. Why does it become impossible
some times to express simple things to one who always knew and understood meekest
of your interest and emotion? Is it our high expectations? Our impatience? Or
in real that one person has drifted away?
It’s always been one of the usual fine mornings but her expectations
from the day are pretty much higher this is only to satisfy her urge of
becoming “flawless” and to lead a “comprehensive happy” life.
Some things do not change and it’s just advisable to go through, experience,
learn and get a grip!!!!
1. Yes, all your exe’s look
fabulous when you are “married”. Move on
and do not ponder over why and where it all went wrong, this will only confuse
your present.
2. Other side of the
grass is “always” greener because we are always disappointed with ourselves
that we just could not make it and maybe this feeling because of our “over”
expectations?
3. We all talk, and
talk and talk a lot about how desperate we are for a “simple” life but never
have made a plan on undoing things which always made it complicated.
4. Yes, the brilliant
plan of taking a different route will always gift you with “traffic jams” but
this is how it is going to be, maybe make a plan and also expect a change in it
or clearly stop making plans!!!!
5. Sometimes having
extra piece of pizza is not a crime, blunder is when you know you can’t cook or
do not want to and also have the desire of eating home food.
6. There is nothing
called “picture perfect” because we do not know what makes it perfect,
everything new and “unreal” seems perfect.
7. Dream of leading a “good”
n “real” life with no qualms of making mistakes but actually learning from it. Learning
the imperfections in you will only make you wiser.
8. Having stated all
the above, the essential thing is to “follow”
. I don’t like people screaming at me, and then you might also follow it. I
wanna quit smoking you might as well do it. I love ice cream and feel like eating,
just go and grab one and do not fret to have relished it. You feel like saying “
you love her/him” and have reservations
, just go ahead and say it because rest of your life you will always think
he/she was perfect but could not work it out, maybe after you said it his/her
answer becomes your learning!!!!
Need a “simple” life, you better plan how simple you need that to
be …….
Megz!!!!
