Going on a date with a charming, enduringly clever guy would be any girl’s dream. We all girls hope for the perfect date ever and few end up becoming almost perfect dates ever!!!!
The First date: Girls insanely wait for their dates, two days to go and you can see girls smiling away to glory , looking as best as she could , wearing all “nice “ clothes, things around her seems shimmering and serene. To all the normal people it is visible that things are going off beam everywhere but this one person seems happy amidst the un pleasantry.
So as evident as it looks she has a date and also she is preparing for it from long time now. She has spoken to all her female colleagues about this gorgeous looking man she is going out this weekend. I do not know how this girl is feeling but I am sure “other” female co-workers have mentally gone out for a date with him in the state of “aw”!!!!!
The evening finally arrived and she is all set to woo this man with her charms and wits. Brushing up her smart skills from days she won’t let any mistake ruin this exciting date.
He arrives looking more than gorgeous as she thought he would look. And right then her brain stops functioning. A greeting hug paralyzed her body parts and there she goes numb completely.
Every first date with prince charming a girl would want to prove herself “DIFFERENT” from other women he has known. But as difficult or easy it is to prove herself she tries her mental tests on him to know if he is worth taking this risk!!!!!
She:So are you seeing some one?
He:No not really I broke up with her sometime ago…
She:Oh so sorry to hear that….
He:Nah… am ok I am over it now…
BINGO!!!! Girl would very much want to know why the “Break UP” this is the test , collecting the facts of why and how , the verdict of him being a
- Awesome!!!!! ,
- Ok…. can make a ‘good friend” ,
- No not at all man
will be declared.
She:Hmmmm… if may I ask why the “Break Up”?????
He:Hmmm…. Ahhhh…(pause…. To actually recollect what happened????) Actually we were different people… things didn’t work out.
Her Mind: (Different people???? All are different it is supposed to be like that…. Tell me something more…. Dude…..)
His Mind: ( ohhh I don’t want to talk about this , lets talk about us…what are we doing after dinner ???? Damnnnit!!! she is hot!!!!)
Note: Guys want to keep their past story as short as possible and girls on the first date wants to know it all!!!!!!!
She : Oh… this happens… its ok maybe she was not just right for you.
Girls try to keep it cool though from inside they are screaming aloud at him to tell the whole history behind his sad life….
Her Mind: ( wait a minute…. He has not even complimented me yet… why am I not looking good… come on…. )
His mind: ( **************!!!!!!!!!!! (Looking at her))
She: The food is really good here, I love butter chicken gravy they make here.
So what cuisines are you fond of????
While they both are busy trying to get to know each other, girl’s mind is loading every single piece of information of his dislikes and likes. In between the conversations she says she had crush on him from the first day she saw and that he is most good looking guy on the floor.
Girl’s simply wants to make men feel special if they find a guy with all the attributes of being the ideal (smart, clever, respectful, humble, sweet, good sense of humor).
And the date finally ended, she is still smiling and while she gets down from his car he says “ hey you look amazing today”
Girl Mind: WOWOOWOWOOWWOO!!!!!!! I was waiting only for this , and it happened…
OMG can I jump???? No noooooo ok relax…)
She: Thanks!!! (Visualizing herself flying on the clouds)
She walks inside her home gushing….. yes its mid night and she is still smiling…. And he????? Maybe sleeping like he never slept before but smiling….
Verdict: He is the “AWESOME!!!!!!MAN” (he finally complimented, treated her like princess, spoke good, made her laugh with his witty humor and most of all looked edible!!! J)
One more FIRST Not so right date :
These are class of dates you feel the boys are not so desirable for the romantic and must needed ones but of course still can meet when you are low, and desperately want a lending ear!!!
You cannot live with them and also without….
It does sound harsh to accept but we all have such people in our lives without them you actually cannot decide the right one. With these kind of people you will know more what you want and look for in “your man/woman” because atleast you do not want him/her to be like these ones….
All ready to meet this person who has always done the right things for you, well technically been really careful about doing the right things just to make himself noticed by you. And you are equally excited as much as you feel obvious about his enthusiasm.
Girls do not have to wok harder and look prettier because to their eyes you are nothing but perfect!!!!!!
She: Hey how is life???
He: Today, feels better like never before……
And he goes on , you want all of this, it all seems so nice to hear only and only great things about you. Everything looks bright and so apparent it gets as he has spoke nothing but radiant elements of you. He can be the guy you could die for but something is not letting that happen , maybe this is not what it takes to be.
You both are lost , lost in your own world of colorful features of being the most desired women on the planet and still you feel moon is not the the place you want to be and not with him at least.
Her mind: (OMG he is fallen for me or what? He is all over this place bragging how happy he is being with me here.
Stop , stop right now buddy!!!!! I know I am great but if you go being more than clear about me and my looks in no time people here will start stoning us so hard that you will stop imagining your princess as it looks your imaginative side of the brain is stoned!!!!
Yes girls starts talking to herself more than to him because as good as it feels to be the best it is rather annoying to know he has no one else but you!!!!!
His Mind: Yes!!!!! She is the one , the only one for me . Mom I told you , here I come she is the one!!!! Thank you all the gods I visited for a week before meeting her. I knew it she is “ THE ONE”!!!! Next whole week I will visit more temples so that she says yes to my next date I am going to offer now…. Please lord please.. please…)
She: So… time for me to leave, It was too good meeting you….
He: oh……(from inside: sobbing so loudly I hope she don’t notice the tear in my eye) Arrrr…. Listen…. Can you???? I mean can we…. Are you free next weekend???
She: Next weekend… let me see maybe but I will surely let you know but why???
He: Nothing important my friend’s party thought you could come along with me…
She: O… great!!! I might have some plans but surely tell you…
He drops her home… did they meet again???? Well….. they did she said and he heard, they laughed, always had great time , but you cant see sparks anywhere….
Verdict: He cannot be anybody but buddy… (You need them, very much need them always to know that you are right!!!! (Although you know somewhere you are going wrong))
Another date you pray it would never happen!!!
These dates are almost regular when you get addicted in making wrong judgment on just great looks or maybe first few fine talks!!! And when this happens it affects your sense of understanding a person so violently in your mind. It ruptures your brain cells so harsh that you will lose the hope on finding the right one ever!!!!
Note: Well girls all i can say is please be aware and avoid such mishaps it can ruin your charm of dating the promising and enduring men coming along your way.
Yes, it’s a date after all and she is in her latest best from her long list of clothes in her wardrobe. Most of the girls have the latest fashion as it seems fashion never ends its her clothes as well it does not have limits.
Any girl’s mind: (That girl there has an amazing fit jeans either I rip off her jeans or ask her where she bought it. Ripping will drive undue attention on her so I better hit the stores for the most recent collections!!!!)
The place is just ideal for the date and she hopes he turns out to be that perfect guy.
They meet its been an hour and all the hellos and knowing each other has come to some level.
He: Yeah…. You look good but only if you would not have worn this t shirt, color doesn’t go that well with your skin tone.
She: Thanks… oh is it… I randomly grabbed one from the wardrobe today did not have time…( Grabbed????? What happened to the unlimited worries of wearing the right one and spending hours in changing just to look this good!!!)
Her mind: (hurtful: what does he actually mean I don’t have a good skin quality or I do not have good dressing sense.)
His mind: (I guess I just look the best in this entire place I can see that girl gaping at me insanely, I just hope her boy friend do not discover this, he might come punch me and that will spoil my new shirt in which I look the handsomest and of course my new hairdo. I have used latest face mask cream I know I look gorgeous I do not want his blow on my face to wreck that.)
These kinds of men are self contained and over confident set you will find on planet earth. Its just not about their looks, but their intelligence, body , hormones all most all the features a man is bestowed with, they simply know they have it to nail down all the women!!!! Humor???? Spare me the humor!!!! Their sense of joking is thankfully invented by them and I am grateful that it is based on their own lives because they fail to notice its them and not others. And why do not they see this, its clear that jokes are made by them because they are smart enough to create jokes!!!!(Utmost sarcasm)
Her mind: ( Wait… why is he observing me so much… or is it something behind me… ok let me just turn around and have a look. O…. why didn’t I guess this there is a mirror and its him only him that he feels so proud of, his smile says it all. Can I ask for the bill????)
His Mind: ( its me… its me… its me… and its me…. Everywhere its me… ( a rap tune))
Verdict: She left… I cannot say any more… let the hell break, heaven dissolve it cannot and will not be him. These are no not at all… better I say never!!!!
We all go through these promiscuous moments in dates, but also the challenging yet inspiring dates also. We all learn for the better and mistakes are meant to happen. Girls as vulnerable as they look sometime they are far more intelligent to decide who will fit into their category of good guys.
Handy tips for guys:
- When a girl is talking ill about another women never support the other one though you feel the other one was right. Go ahead and say it, rest of the evening I can see you a dead meat with guilt!!!
- When your date says she got a new hair cut, she means ,say that I am looking great!!! Because you have failed to notice that actually there is some change in her hair style and you had convinced your self this is how it always was!!!!
- When a girl is telling her past sad story or just a painful story about her friend also, she expects you to be considerate. Well at least act considerate because that’s how she checks how sensitive you are.
- When she says she fell down, some guy made a pass at her , or some incident which was a mistake, DO NOT BLAME HER for her existence she just wanted to know how much you care about her and after you made her feel that you have all the concern for her , you can say how wrong she was…
- When they talk , they want you to listen (Though it sounds unfair to all men , Just listen!!!)
- She is talking about your ex or she makes sure your ex pops up somehow in the conversation. It means she just wants to know if you feel that she is the right one for you. And if you think she is then generously make her feel special.
- More you show through your gestures and words that she means a lot to you more she becomes completely yours.
- Compliment her, appreciate for the fact of she being in your life. She is because she wanted to look good for you , she is cos she wanted to be for you!!!
- Tell her how much you love her and you can see how hard she tries to be your dream women.
- Lastly, Love your ladies for what they are and what they have become for you. Girls can go to any extent to make their man feel special, and to make him see the love they have for him and only him. If they don’t then you have made the wrong choice of your dream girl. There are plenty of them go hunt for the right one…
Totally Love :)
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